3 ‘P’ Principle

I‘m not an expert when it comes to figuring life out.

Instead I like to think of myself as an example of how hard work can put life in the right direction.

Be it the first day of a new year to get some perspective.

It’s been four months since I finished my undergrad, and not to sound cliche, but these past few months has honestly felt like an emotional roller coaster. From the joys of receiving my Communications degree to the “joys” of piecing countless job applications together, loving being lazy to hating being lazy, it’s troubling how the aspects of no longer being a student nor employed can damage one’s self-confidence.

What’s saddening about this is how many newly grads are finding themselves in this position or are currently being underemployed. When I get news about degree-holders who are being trained to ask customers if they’d like whip cream on their hot beverages, the scholar in me screams.

I’ll admit it. I have had my fair share of low moments, but there’s a place and time for flipping off the world and yes, screaming.

When you’re out in public or publicizing a message, you are representing yourself. You are a brand. And though it may appear on paper that you are unemployed, you are actually serving as your own agent.

It’s easy to think nothing is working out the way you planned and slip into the wrong head-space.

For those who fit the out-of-school and looking for work description, my advice is apply the 3 P’s:

1. Persistence – Far from creepy, I’m talking about being determined to do and or achieve something. A firmness of purpose. Tenacity, folks. Never give up. I’m a strong believer in goal-setting and having some sort of push towards an end result. Wanting something is the first step in pursuit. Stay up-to-date, follow and continually update yourself with the industry of interest’s material. When proved that you’re on top of the trends, are knowledgeable, and can contribute with refreshing input, others will take interest in your material. So, find that fire and make like moth.

2. Have Patience – You know the saying, “Good things come to those who wait.” The reality is, the corporate employment process is a lengthy one. I once worked for Human Resources and Social Development Canada for a co-op term over in Gatineau, PQ. One time I asked a recruiter how many resumes she receives on average for a position. She responded by pointing over to a monstrous,  mountain of a pile of papers. “And that doesn’t even include the electronic CVs”, she added. Good things will come if you simply allow them to come in their own time. Think about it: Eventually, the Heinz ketchup will pour out onto your burger.

3. Stay Positive – Sure, you’re at a plateau. As much as you feel like you’re sinking, you’re not. Enter family and friends. The people who love and support you are there to do just that. They are metaphorically speaking, life jackets and are always there to see you through the storm. I cannot stress how important it is to have good company around you. The right people will promote the right attitude. Whatever makes you happy. Whether it be movie-making, baking or even dance hall shaking. No employer will hire a sad panda. Just remember, a smile truly goes a long way.

I wouldn’t be advocating these 3 P’s if they didn’t deliver to some degree. 2009 was a tough year. The key is to move forward with an open mind. And that’s what I did. Checked out of my darkest hour, stopped feeling sorry, and began networking. The dream job doesn’t come to you. You have to go to the dream job. Take it from me, if I can land an opportunity of a lifetime at the CBC, so can you!

Apply the 3 P’s and more importantly, apply yourself!

You can really have it all, after all. Go figure.

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